It bears repeating: People with dementia aren’t “done.” They have led productive, valuable lives, and often they still love to help in whatever way they can—it's part of the human desire to feel needed and useful. "Letting" them help isn't about busywork, and your elder's usefulness isn't a fiction; tasks actually do need to be done, and … Continue reading How to help a person with Alzheimer’s feel useful
Sometimes people with Alzheimer’s and other dementias suddenly lash out in anger or break down hysterically. What should you do? Most of us aren’t that good at dealing with upset emotions and behaviors. And yes, they are upsetting. But I’ve found a few things that can help both you and your loved one. (If you … Continue reading What to do if a person with dementia becomes agitated
You’ll notice that in many of the worship services offered on this site, I include some kind of humorous story or jokes. In addition, during bible studies I often stop and point out amusing notes that pertain to the passage, like the stinky smell of sheep (Luke 15) or the image of the persistent widow […]
“Religion that is pure and undefiled before God the Father is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction …” (James 1:27) “Remember those who are in prison, as though in prison with them …” (Hebrews 13:3) “‘When did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ And the King will answer, ‘Truly, I say to you, … Continue reading Widows, orphans, and prisoners: God’s heart for elders with dementia
For many people now in eldercare settings, worshipping in community on Sunday was an inviolate tradition. It simply wouldn’t be Sunday without going to church! God is faithful to meet elders -- like the rest of us -- exactly where they're at. I believe that deep calls to deep (Psalm 42) as the Spirit communes … Continue reading Why — and how — to lead a memory-care worship service
Spiritual Eldercare 